When I Last Spoke to Thomas Ravenel

However in speak to? Ashley Jacobs remaining Southern Allure immediately after season 6 in 2019, but she is nonetheless be in contact with some of her previous costars – such as ex Thomas Ravenel.

“Because of social media you see what’s likely on in each and every other’s lives and I see what’s likely on with his young children and new property,” Jacobs, 37, advised Us Weekly exclusively on Wednesday, July 20. “He’ll say, ‘Congrats,’ and he reaches out every single now and once again, and he’ll chuckle and he’ll go like, ‘You did it, you did the married life.’ He type of laughs at me. He plays with me.”

The former fact stars started relationship in May well 2017 and named issues off in August 2018, with quite a few of their ups and downs documented on the common Bravo collection.

The clinical expert has considering that returned to the Golden Point out and is now married to spouse Mike Appel. The pair welcomed a son, Grayson, in August 2021.

In accordance to Jacobs, her separation procedure with Ravenel, 59, was “gnarly,” thinking about the ongoing custody battle he was embroiled in with ex-girlfriend (and onscreen nemesis) Kathryn Dennis, with whom the previous South Carolina condition treasurer shares daughter Kensington, 8, and Julien, 6.

“It was just so nuts,” the influencer advised Us. “It was a custody arrangement that you can’t have a girlfriend underneath the exact roof as the young children. You just can’t snooze more than except you’re married. And I experience like that’s what Kathryn was trying or her attorneys have been attempting to get me on.”

Jacobs was also having difficulties with the May well 2018 sexual assault accusations created in opposition to the previous politician by two girls, which includes the children’s previous nanny, Dawn Ledwell. He denied the allegations and settled the lawsuit submitted by Ledwell in Oct 2019.

“I just imagined, ‘What am I executing with my life in this article?’ So we each agreed for the objective of him striving to deal with this custody with no me in the image,” the Santa Barbara, California, native included. “And the right thing for me to do was to go back again residence and center myself and be close to my relatives and my good friends and get to a area wherever I could get healthy. I knew in my coronary heart I wasn’t heading back when I remaining.”

However she resolved to element methods with Ravenel, the former Bravo temperament even now defended him in opposition to how he was portrayed on the clearly show.

“Thomas is like me — he likes to get a response. It’s lights, camera action,” she shared. “When the lights are on, he’s like, ‘How can I be as ridiculous as doable?’ In some cases it’s a dry feeling of humor — genuinely foolish. We like to get a reaction [but] that didn’t get the job done nicely. It [wasn’t] working in our favor when we’re the bad guys.”

As for making a return to fact Tv, Jacobs mentioned she would look at it if she could “do it with pals.”

“That was the a single factor I in no way acquired — I just experienced Thomas. That was it,” she stated. “I want people could have seen more of my persona. Of training course there is drama and chaos, but I desire there was not an enemy that I experienced to spar with. Of system, all the displays have to have that drama.”

With reporting by Christina Garibaldi